As we inched along the Freeway, my anxiety increased. I'm sorry if I sound harsh; you sound like a really good mom and I think it's awesome that you're asking this. Congratulations on having a healthy baby boy and having a mum who is supportive of both you and your son. I am a little like one of the other readers who commented that when I am with him were ok, but when we are apart we argue cause I feel like he is cheating. For me, however, progress has come only with a practice of restraint:
Work on bringing him more into the kid's life and decisions that effect, if you think it's the right thing to do.
Frank Advice About Dating Your Child's Father
Yes, it is. If you're a jealous person, this might not be for you. I am 19 and I just had my first kid. Respect her role. Co-parenting relationship focused on your son? You can have a sitdown with him first, then include her. But it sounds like the time for any relationship with him has passed.